Another Sad Story

I got this email last week as a comment on my web site Fragrance Free World. It just seems lik such a cruel world we live in, doesn’t it?

One thing intrigued me. I’ve never really read about a connection between HPV or other vaccines and MCS. Have you?

Over the last 2.5 years, I have become extremely sensitive to fragrances and have had MAJOR health problems because of them. Up until last October, I’d had migraines on an almost daily basis because of fragrances. For the longest time, my doctors thought it was allergies…. in fact, I’d been on allergy medicine since I was 10 years old… I finally went to an allergist to figure out what it was I was allergic to and it turned out that I wasn’t alleric to anything…. not ever dust! So, after listening to my symptoms (constant sever headache, nausea, dizziness, confusion, easily sicken by motion, poor balance, EXTREME sensitivity to smells) my allergist thought I had transformed migraines and sent me to see a migraine specialist. Last October, I saw the migraine specialist and he prescribed me Topamax (anti-seizure med.) which he said was supposed to raise my tolerance to stimuli! It has made a world of difference. I can’t and NEVER will be able to w ear perfume, or use scented anything and neither will my husband and those coming in close contact with me, but at least now I don’t get an instant headache from every little whiff of fragrance like I used to.

I really don’t understand where all this came from. I myself used to love wearing perfume and loved bath and body works products, but now I couldn’t hate them more! Sensitivities to fragrances run in my family, so I’m sure it has something to do with that, but I think two other things (one huge one in particular) may be to blame for my sudden problems. 1. I moved into central WI to go to school… there are TONS over paper mills in the part of the state. Some days I can hardly handle the smell…. I sometimes wonder if being exposed to those chemicals on a daily basis triggered my problems because I never experienced them until I moved and went to college…. 2. Recently, I was given the 3 HPV shots and shortly after those is when I started having problems…. My dad had a similar problem after getting a flu shot which has had lasting effect on him as well…. there is no way to ever prove the HPV shot had anything to do with my becoming the way I am now, but it seems awfully
coincidental to me.

I feel like my sensitivities I have to fragrances and the migraines I get from them have taken over my life! Every single place I go is scented. It has gotten so bad that I have to sniff the keyboard and mouse in the school computer lab to make sure nobody before me has used scented lotion…. I have to sniff chairs that have fabric on them… I carry peppermint oil around with me to put under my nose ever time I smell perfume, cologne, fabric softener to drown out the smell to avoid getting a migraine and I end up applying the peppermint oil until my nose AT LEAST 10 times a day, I have to bring my own sheets when I stay in a hotel, I can’t go shopping anymore (which was one of my fav. things to do) because the mall REEKS of perfume, I can’t sit near people in movie theaters or ball games, I am hesitant to ride in other people’s cars or go into other people’s houses in the fear that it will either reek of smoke, air freshener, or the new car smell….. the only place I feel
I can be at ease and not always up tight is at home…. and up until I got married, I lived with roommates that were VERY insensitive to my requests of them not using fragrances in the house… so at that point even my house was not a safe haven.

I’ve dealt with people telling me it’s all in my head. My stupid sister-in-law even went as far as to tell me that I’ve made up my issues with fragrances and the migraines I get from them to control her brother. (He’s switched deodorant, detergent, stopped using cologne, etc.) It makes me sick that I’m now related to this woman.

I’ve dealt with people telling me it’s their right to wear whatever they want to wear and how dare I ask them not to. I just really don’t understand how anybody can have this attitude towards somebody. I really think it’s sad that people are so mean, ignorant, and inconsiderate just because they can’t understand what somebody is going through and choose to do what they know damn well is making others sick.

The section about me and my world brought me to tears. I sometimes feel like I’m totally alone. It’s nice to know that somebody gets it.

My dad and my aunt, but they’re not as bad as I am.

I view the usage of fragrances like smoking…. if you want to smoke, fine, but make others breathe your smoke in as well. If you want to use fragrances fine, but not in public places where everybody else around you is forced to smell it.

I wish more people would view the situation this way…. or at least not use the whole damn bottle every morning!

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11 Responses to “Another Sad Story”

  1. phyllis April 3, 2009 at 12:38 pm #

    “people are so mean, ignorant, and inconsiderate just because they can’t understand what somebody is going through and choose to do what they know damn well is making others sick.”‘

    Unfortunately, you are so right about this. I also have similar issues to yours and I am mad as hell all the time.

  2. shelly April 23, 2009 at 1:16 am #

    I am going through the same thing at work, they recently put up scent free floor signs, it was taken by some as a challenge, these are people who are 40 and over! I was in tears today, they have a “choice to wear it, I don’t have a choice to breath it at work. I love my job and I am good at it, I don’t know where to turn

  3. Pam May 19, 2009 at 7:55 am #

    I quit my job because people wouldn’t quit wearing it. When I asked for an accomodation, women start wearing even more fragrance. I could have taken it to HR but the job wasn’t worth it so I just quit. Wouldn’t have wanted to work with people like that anyway. Maybe some day things will change. Maybe we can change it by educating people like what we are doing here on this website.

  4. Asheley Kapelewski May 27, 2009 at 1:40 pm #

    I had to leave my position and haven’t been able to find work because of this epidemic of “extreme smellines” we are in the midst of. You are right, people not yet sick with MCS/related conditions are taking this as a challenge to wear more. This is an air quality issue, like smoking. Unfortunately we are worth more to the health care industry chronically ill than we are when we are well. There are places that have successfully implemented policies against blocking access for those disabled with MCS. To the best of my knowledge, it is considered a FEDERAL disability category -hard as hell to get a claim going,(& I’m not interested in getting free$) but perhaps legislation could be initiated for ensuring access at least to public places. Anyone w/ideas? A brave little town I know of that is implementing fragrance free areas in town is Shutesbury, MA, see their website. Go Shutesbury!!

  5. Jo Griffin July 9, 2009 at 2:49 pm #

    :roll: Its truly a shame what all of us go through. Its unfortunate that we have to learn to live with this. It makes the thought of moving to Nova Scotia sound even better. I would say don’t give up hope, but there are days I don’t have any left either.

  6. Asheley K July 10, 2009 at 1:55 pm #

    I thought I’d leave a little note or hope – it seems household & personal chemicals are getting some recognition due to their endocrine & hormonal disruption effects. This has been known since the 90s, but we’ve been thru an anti-science period politically… Anyway, because of the potential for laundry & cleaning products to turn MALE fish/amphibians into hermaphrodites, attention is being paid to the bisphenals, formaldehyde, etc in common products being use near our KIDS. Maybe someone concerned about rising school taxes needed to supply individual teachers to every autistic/learning/behavioraly challenged kid in the class? And why so many kids are now uncontrollable/unteachabel w/o extreme intervention? Anyway, I heard an article on NPR’s ON POINT show on 7/6 about this, probably based on the book “Our Stolen Future”, that actually got off pollution in foods, and had some dicussion about household toxics, incl. perfume. A start. All the callers were so thankful for some time spent on the
    Next Plague. We need to write in en mass & thank him for coverage, and ask for more. We need no to be invisible & silent. For the future generations, as well as ourselves.

  7. bobby December 4, 2009 at 1:36 am #

    I have the same problem you have. Migraines almost daily triggered by chemical fragrances. I have been trying for months to find info on a link with my migraines and living next to a paper mill in Maine for 10 years. I have always thought it was the cause of my migraines.

  8. mac brush January 18, 2010 at 10:05 am #

    I have also some migraine attack but not as sever as yours. I’m not that sensitive to fragrances, though smelling too much makes me feel dizzy. But what I think that triggers me most when I get an attack, is when I am overly stressed and pressured during work deadline and when I have my menstrual period. It lasts for 4 days and almost makes me bedridden for those days.

  9. Annelies May 23, 2010 at 8:01 pm #

    This is NOT in you’re head, this is real !!!

    I’m so sorry you’ve had the three HPV-vaccine’s, Gardasil.

    You need to detox !! First of all, you need to know what’s in Gardasil. See: http://www.EU2009.Come2me.nl

    You’re higly sensitive and you need to learn more abou that. Vaccine’s don’t do you any good at all. On the contrary: they don’t give you’re body the opportunity to “grow”.

    You’ve had a enourmous amount of: polysorbate80 (very toxic), formaldehyde(very toxic), thimerosal ( =mercury and very toxic, aluminiumhydroxide(very toxic)
    and more very toxic stuff injected in you’re sensitive body.

    http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_cancer-vaccine-programme-suspended-after-4-girls-die_1368681

    Beware off the up-comming flu-vaccins. They also contain very, very toxic ingredients. Just Google on the ingredients I just mentioned, than Google on patent-applications and see, there all in the vaccine’s.

  10. Betsy July 8, 2010 at 1:01 pm #

    Does anyone especially have problems with the laundry products (detergent, “fabric softener,” “dryer sheets”)? The newer products with lingering chemical scents are literally killing me from secondhand exposure. I agree with everything that I am reading here in this blog.

    1) Has anyone started a Facebook group addressing particular products, like laundry or “air fresheners” like the “bring back the old Pampers” campaign on Facebook. They are now involved in a class action lawsuit.
    2) have you reported your complaints, including medical, to the U.S. Consumer Product division?
    3) have you reported your complaints, including medical, to the companies who manufacturer chemical fragrances, like Proctor and Gamble?
    4) has anyone pursued litigation with respect to these products?
    We would like to hear! Thanks.

  11. Annelie October 28, 2011 at 4:18 pm #

    Hello, I really hear you. You are really not the only one who got poblems with fragrances, I got asthma and I also get sick from perfume, and your sister in law really owe you and appology.

    Seam like you fit the discrition. Check in at:
    https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/165937546800346/
    To meet more that have the same problem as you.

    Norwegian groups:
    https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/141418939289210/
    https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/148872935129158/

    Swedish groups:
    https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/194624760146/

    You find me at:
    http://anneliemolin.wordpress.com/2011/10/17/the-backside-of-asthma-and-allergies/

    There are millions of people around the world that have a problem with perfume.

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